{"id":3740,"date":"2026-11-05T17:25:17","date_gmt":"2026-11-05T14:25:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/?p=3740"},"modified":"2026-11-06T11:13:11","modified_gmt":"2026-11-06T08:13:11","slug":"cocugum-her-seye-itiraz-ediyor-ne-yapabilirim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/cocugum-her-seye-itiraz-ediyor-ne-yapabilirim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011fum Her \u015eeye \u0130tiraz Ediyor Ne Yapabilirim?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3740\" class=\"elementor elementor-3740\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78307f7e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"78307f7e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3b7adc4 e-con-full e-transform e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3b7adc4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-37,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c27f9dc elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3c27f9dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u00c7ocu\u011fum Her \u015eeye \u0130tiraz Ediyor Ne Yapabilirim?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-353b32f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"353b32f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n anne babalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 gelme si bir\u00e7ok ebeveynin kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir durumdur. Anne baban\u0131n her dedi\u011fine evet diyen, hi\u00e7bir \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131 gelmeyen \u00e7ocuk yok gibidir. Zaten \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun getirdi\u011fi bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olarak baz\u0131 \u015feyleri kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131na g\u00f6re yorumlama ve uygu lama iste\u011finin olmas\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fme a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan gerekir. Eri\u015fkin d\u00fczeyinde bilgi sahibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in eri\u015fkinlerin koyduklar\u0131 kurallar\u0131 tam olarak yerine getirmeleri de \u00e7ok zordur. K\u0131sacas\u0131 itiraz veya yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun yap\u0131s\u0131nda vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Anne baban\u0131n her dedi\u011fine kar\u015f\u0131 s\u00fcrekli ve yayg\u0131n bir \u015fekilde, olumlu veya olumsuz taraflar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden s\u00fcrekli kar\u015f\u0131 gelme durumu varsa bu davran\u0131\u015f normal de\u011fildir. Az miktardaki kar\u015f\u0131 gelme ve itiraz normal iken bunun yayg\u0131n olmas\u0131 anormaldir. Hatta psikiyatride \u00e7abuk sinirlenen, her \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131 gelen, otoriteye kar\u015f\u0131 kavgac\u0131 ve uyumsuz olan \u00e7ocuklara verilen bir tan\u0131 da vard\u0131r ki buna kar\u015f\u0131t olma kar\u015f\u0131 gelme bozuklu\u011fu denir. Bu tan\u0131 \u00e7ok yayg\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131 gel me sorunu varsa daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcr. Anne babalar\u0131n g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 itirazlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlukla ba\u015fka sebepleri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-path-to-node=\"13\">\n<p><em>Kaynak: Do\u00e7. Dr. Osman ABALI, Cep Kitaplar\u0131 Serisi-6, Davran\u0131\u015f Problemleri ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm Yollar\u0131 A<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7224081 e-con-full e-transform e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"7224081\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-49,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-68,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58b095a7 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"58b095a7\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-76822ec2 e-con-full e-transform e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"76822ec2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:0,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-12,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a114e0e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6a114e0e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Osman Abal\u0131 Assoc. 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Anne baban\u0131n her dedi\u011fine evet diyen, hi\u00e7bir \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131 gelmeyen \u00e7ocuk yok gibidir. Zaten \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun getirdi\u011fi bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 olarak baz\u0131 \u015feyleri kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131na g\u00f6re yorumlama ve uygu lama iste\u011finin olmas\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fme a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan gerekir. 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