{"id":3724,"date":"2026-11-05T16:13:28","date_gmt":"2026-11-05T13:13:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/?p=3724"},"modified":"2026-11-06T11:11:35","modified_gmt":"2026-11-06T08:11:35","slug":"kardes-kiskancligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/kardes-kiskancligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Karde\u015f K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3724\" class=\"elementor elementor-3724\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-403bd8e1 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"403bd8e1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e2bb8de e-con-full e-transform e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e2bb8de\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-37,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31b2666 elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"31b2666\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Karde\u015f K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51bc81f3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"51bc81f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 genelde anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ok s\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 problemlerin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. Aile i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tats\u0131z rekabeti ve birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 negatif tutumlar\u0131 ailenin sevgi ve muhabbet anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na ters d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hemen g\u00f6ze batar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle karde\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok az olmas\u0131 durumunda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k artabilir. Ancak her ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k her \u00e7ocukta az veya \u00e7ok olabilir. M\u00fchim olan bunun a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ve zarar verici boyutlara ula\u015fmamas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklarda kendine y\u00f6nelmi\u015f olan ilgi, sevgi ve dikkatin ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ile payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131ndan rahats\u0131z olurlar. Bu durum \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun getirdi\u011fi bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Her \u00e7ocuk anne baba ilgisini ne kadar \u00e7ok toplarsa o kadar mutlu olur.<\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n engellenmesi i\u00e7in anne babalar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nemi vard\u0131r. \u0130lgi ve sevgi da\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131ndaki adaletsizlik k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r. Anne babalar karde\u015f do\u011fa ca\u011f\u0131 zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocukla ilgilenmeyi devam ettirmelidirler. Ancak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal geli\u015fmesi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan gerekli olan deste\u011fi ve ilgiyi b\u00fcy\u00fck karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u0131r diye azaltmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. B\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc destekleyelim derken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn psikolojik yap\u0131s\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya girebilir.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-path-to-node=\"13\">\n<p><em>Kaynak: Do\u00e7. Dr. Osman ABALI, Cep Kitaplar\u0131 Serisi-6, Davran\u0131\u015f Problemleri ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm Yollar\u0131 A<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a80f91d e-con-full e-transform e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a80f91d\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-49,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-68,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15b4d66f e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"15b4d66f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72fb5b6b e-con-full e-transform e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"72fb5b6b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:0,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:-12,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateX_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_tablet&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;_transform_translateY_effect_mobile&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b96be79 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1b96be79\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Osman Abal\u0131 Assoc. 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Aile i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tats\u0131z rekabeti ve birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 negatif tutumlar\u0131 ailenin sevgi ve muhabbet anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na ters d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hemen g\u00f6ze batar. \u00d6zellikle karde\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok az olmas\u0131 durumunda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k artabilir. Ancak her ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k her \u00e7ocukta [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"elementor_header_footer","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"_joinchat":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-davranis-problemleri-ve-cozum-yollari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3724","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3724"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3724\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3796,"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3724\/revisions\/3796"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3724"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3724"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drosmanabali.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3724"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}